Hidden Nightmares of Moving to Mexico You Need to Know

By Travel Mexico Solo Aug 29, 20240

Wondering what it’s like to Live in Mexico?

You’re in the right place — as I moved to Mexico from the U.S. in 2018, so I know a thing or two (or 22!) about living in Mexico.

In short, Mexico boasts a vibrant culture with delectable cuisine, lively social scenes, and a penchant for festivities, all set against breathtaking landscapes.

But also, living in Mexico has its challenges that not everyone talks about — some that I wish I knew before relocating.

These including police corruption in some areas, and things you’re probably not thinking of, like the concept of “ahorita” (we’ll get to this one).

With colorful colonial cities, pristine beaches, and warm hospitality, most people who move to Mexico paint a picture of a new utopia.

However, you should know it’s not all sunshine and rainbows (ok, there’s actually a lot of sunshine; but still) — so let’s look at 8 cons of expat life in Mexico.

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Con #1: The Slow Pace of Life & “Ahorita”

Most Mexico cities have parks in the main areas so you can sit on a bench, take a break, and enjoy the day.

If you’re thinking “But isn’t the slow pace of life one of the perks of moving in Mexico?” While some will love it, others won’t, so let’s dive a bit deeper.

There is a Mexican slang word called ahorita that you have to know about, and grow to accept, if you want to move to Mexico and not hate your life!

This word is similar to “soon” in English — but the ahorita soon doesn’t necessarily mean “in an hour” or “in a day.”

Rather, ahorita has no timeframe. It could be three days, a week, two weeks, or even longer.

More than “soon,” think of ahorita as an “I’ll get to it eventually because we have a slower pace of life in this country and rushing just isn’t how we do it here.”

While a laid-back lifestyle has its charm, efficiency isn’t a virtue in Mexico, and as a blanket statement, it’s definitly not Mexico’s forte.

Just like Caribbean islands have “island time,” and Italians take 2-3 hour lunch breaks, some things in Mexico end up a lot longer than you think they will (or should).

Living in Mexico entails adapting to a slower pace, and embracing patience. Though things seldom happen swiftly, eventually, everything will get done.

Con #2: The Gringo Tax

Even in the best expat cities in Mexico, you will have to learn the local prices.

Upon moving to Mexico, you’ll soon realize occasional instances of being charged inflated prices for rent, food, taxis, and other goods.

Similar to the tourist tax, this gringo tax means opportunistic sellers may seize the chance to capitalize on newcomers and foreigners who don’t know any better.

To circumvent this, you need to stay informed about prevailing rates, conducting research, and seeking advice from locals is crucial for preparation.

Over time, this becomes less and less of an issue the longer you’re in Mexico and know the going rates for things — but also, it’s important to now that not all people will hike up prices because you’re a foreigner.

Con #3: The Loud Noise Levels

Mexico is festive and fun, but it’s also quite loud.

Mexico embraces a lively atmosphere, which often translates into noise — a byproduct of how much Mexicans love socializing and celebrations.

Expect a cacophony of sounds no matter where you go in the county: barking dogs, partying, street vendors, parades, late-night parties, music in bars and clubs, etc.

People tend to speak loudly, sing, dance, and play music, which may be annoying if you’re unaccustomed to it, but it’s something you’d have to accept.

There’s no way around the fact the Mexico is loud, and for many, this could pose a significant drawback as it could require a BIG adjustment on your part.

Con #4: Cash is Still King

Get used to seeing the ATMs in Mexico if you want to live in the country.

This is one I personally still get annoyed with, even after living in Mexico since 2018 — so know there will be things you never fully accept, but still have to deal with.

In Mexico, cash reigns supreme, making it challenging for people like me who prefer to use credit cards, debit cards, Venmo, and/or want to make online payments.

This deviation from the global trend toward a cashless society can lead to frustration, as so many transactions still occur in cash — from street food vendors, to taxis, and even government transactions.

For example, I had to pay for my Mexican Green Card in cash.

This was a pretty sizable payment, and I had to make several transactions over several days to get all the cash I needed because of ATM maximum withdrawals.

While this preference for cash might seem insignificant, especially to people from countries like Germany where cash is also widely preferred, it’s crucial to recognize that Mexico’s safety concerns add a layer of complexity.

Also, withdrawing substantial sums from ATMs can pose risks in certain areas if you’re not staying aware of your surroundings.

While it might not be for some, for me and maybe you too, constantly carrying cash, regardless of the amount, will present a drawback to living in Mexico.

Con #5: The Language Barrier

Eventually, you will want to get your Spanish skills in order. (Photo: Canva)

The language barrier can be a significant consideration for who don’t speak Spanish but do want to move to Mexico.

While residing in expatriate communities will mitigate this, it’s important to note that only about 5% of Mexicans speak English.

Having a basic understanding of the language can alleviate some issue, but you will want to work on your Spanish if you’re living in Mexico full time.

To get you conversational and confident FAST, I recommend Rocket Spanish from Rocket Languages.

However, assuming widespread English proficiency upon arrival can lead to disappointment, particularly in non-touristy regions.

Daily interactions may pose challenges without rudimentary Spanish skills, underscoring the importance of language preparation before deciding to relocate.

Con #6: Police Corruption

Sadly, police corruption is something you might have to navigate when living in Mexico. (Photo: Canva)

Living in Mexico comes with the reality of police corruption, a stark contrast for individuals accustomed to North American and European standards.

Bribery is commonplace, and encountering a corrupt police officer will likely happen at some point, particularly when driving in Mexico or if you’re drunk in public.

Typically, an officer might stop you under false pretenses and demand a bribe on the spot.

While avoiding these situations entirely isn’t always possible, you can request a written citation or ask to be taken to the police station for payment.

If it’s a bogus charge, they won’t want to do that as it could get them in trouble, so they’ll usually have to let you go.

Con #7: High Crime Rates in Some Areas

Tourist towns like Playa del Carmen sometimes have higher crime rates than other cities.

Each year, the Global Peace Index ranks the world’s safest and most dangerous countries.

In 2023, Mexico landed 136th out of 163 countries, experiencing a slight improvement from the preceding year.

Regrettably, there are several dangerous places in Mexico, making it one of the least peaceful Latin America countries.

While I haven’t personally been a victim of any crimes, I’m not naive enough to think it can’t happen.

I also know that as someone who’s from one of the least-safe cities in the U.S., I also knew I could be the victim of a crime in my home country.

In Mexico, expats are not typically the primary targets, as drug trafficking and gang-related activities prevail.

However, you’ll want need to stay aware of yourself, your surroundings, and your belongings at all times in order to steer clear of dangers.

Con #8: Mexico is Huge

Mexico is a big country, but it also has a lot to explore — like the beautiful beaches of La Paz.

This one will be a pro for some, a non-issue for some, and a con for others — which is why I listed it last.

As the 14th largest country on Earth, Mexico spans a vast area, and in fact, can fit several countries inside it.

While this offers ample opportunities for exploration and activities, the extensive distances can pose a notable drawback to living in the country for some.

For instance, traveling from Mexico City to Cancun requires 2.5 hours by plane, or more than 20 hours by driving.

Getting from one point to another often entails significant time commitments or necessitates air travel or long-distance bus travel.

While flights are generally affordable on Mexican airlines, relying solely on air travel can prove frustrating, especially for reaching small towns that aren’t near an airport, or for those traveling with a pet.

Driving across Mexico is not a feasible option for quick journeys, highlighting an important consideration for prospective movers.